Zen-inification - The art of decluttering

TLDR: I am decluttering my life. On my own terms.

If your span of attention is higher than one sentence, read on and you will see how I got to create my own word "Zeninifcation" as a start to take action against the fact that I have more crap than I need and it is sucking my time just to keep it out of the sight. 

I don't like clutter. I don't do things I don't like.

Even if my wife disagrees, no, I don't have OCD according to this one random article. But I do consider clutter a distraction to my thinking. 

It's like if you always dress like a slob then that one day you have to dress nicely it feels specially constraining. Or if you normally dress like a New Yorker stock exchange assassin the few days in a row that you are in your PJ feels like after you finished your huge McDonald's burger the first week after you started a diet.

Let's dig deeper.

I moved from Europe to the U.S.A. about 18 years ago, by the time of this post. At first, as most expats I noticed right away all the macro differences of the hosting country. Everything is bigger in size. People seem to be this and that... I recall my wife saying "mom....! Even the paper towel is bigger. It's actually huge!". After a few years into the melting pot, I start spotting the weird things from an angle of who wasn't born in the town.

More than anything I kept noticing one particular habit that others had (anyone from anywhere) they were shopping by opportunity and not as I was raised, by need.

If that statement sounds cryptic to you, let me explain:

In places where economy and socio-dynamics are not the same as the ones we experience in most of America on a daily basis, people buy things on the basis of: 

to do X, I need Y, I don't have it therefore I am going to the store to get it.

The friction is so high that you end up spending money on just the essentials because the process to get it is harder and the mentality is: I might can get it done without buying anything.

in most of America, the mental workflow is:

a price drop is splashed in your face, and your brain thinks how much you can future proof save on something that you may or may not need, right now. And the most common expression you hear is:

It was a great deal, I couldn't pass it on! 

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Black Friday matter... even if you don't need anything.

If you are not fully Americanized or fully Amazon-ed that last statement might sound logical but not factual to you, yet. Give it some time, even if you are the most stingy of all, soon or later you are going to crack my friend. True story.

Typically that faulty consumeristic ad logic is followed by a quick Amazon trip which normally, like when you walk in any retail store, ends up with additional purchases that they just happen to drop in your eyesight at the time of buying something that perhaps wasn't that essential in the first place.

I recall keeping thinking about why people do that?! "if you don't need it why buying it?!" - I also remember thinking "you will end up feeding the system which generates more waste of your health (pollution) and your hard-gained money." I remember watching parodies like the one below and thinking "so true! That's not going to be me!"

Well, sure enough, if you play with the devil long enough soon or later you become evil too. They say... and hey if they don't say that, they should... soon or later - our #45 shameful president say so!

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So after almost two decades, I end up having so much crap in our home that I keep spending time reorganizing and building new storage locations. 

Like any other diligent engineering mindset out there, I label things, I try to keep records so that I don't end up buying another HDMI cable when probably another 7 thousand are hidden in the place that made sense at the time of again, reorganizing.

So now I am officially entering the new phase of full adoption in a country that I feel it as close to me as my birthplace. Fixing problems that I created while starring at the obvious differences between the two continents I belong to.

I am going minimalistic and get rid of stuff that might be somebody else treasure when I will post the ads. 

Like new, cash only. You pick up.

And just like any other bad gambler, after so many reposts of the same ad in the usual places, I will put something on my street with the free sign. 

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Ignoring that most people in the same life stage that I am now, they like things that they don't need, to be delivered by their doorstep, by the Amazon masked people. Therefore I will experience the ultimate defeat shopper loss just to get rid of my shit.

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Like any other middle-class well-educated individual that is getting older, between a meditation session and some healthy food I am going to read a bunch of good articles on decluttering, making sure that every person I know becomes aware of it and then initiate the process of selling/giving away my crap.

Fuck that.

I am wise not because I am particularly smart or savvy. It is because I accelerate my failures so much that I learn my lessons faster than the most. And compound knowledge of failures when transferred from one domain to the other is really smart in action. 

Or by using words from Edison aka Nikola's Walmart boss said: